Handling others easy or handle self is easy?
Hi all Am santhosh Doctrocal in engg. Am working as professor . After several years in teaching I gained experience for un miserable question among the people " handling others is easy or handle self is easy"? Let see both side of a coin handling others first: human are lazy creatures on planet because of intellectual knowledge development in the evolution of species so for in the planet. We want others to do our work for our purpose . For this they developed commanding skill es and emotional skills to do or for them. As result of this it causes too much of attachment with others by emotion and get into regrets when they didn't do what we said to do or listen or didn't pay attention it creature tension and anxiety and spoil the mood. Other side : handling self is real hardest part and also easiest part too? How come ? Any guess? From birth no one teaches much how to handle us , boz no parents taught them to their children before from generations ...