Handling others easy or handle self is easy?

Hi all
 Am santhosh Doctrocal in engg. Am working as professor . After several years in teaching I gained experience for un miserable question among the people " handling others is easy or handle self is easy"?

Let see both side of a coin handling others first:

human are lazy creatures on planet because of intellectual knowledge development in the evolution of species so for in the planet. We want others to do our work for our
 purpose .  For this they developed commanding skill es and emotional skills to do or for them. As result of this it causes too much of attachment with others by emotion and get into regrets when they didn't do what we said to do or listen or didn't pay attention it creature tension and anxiety and spoil the mood.

Other side : handling self is real hardest part and also easiest part too? How come ?
 Any guess?
From birth  no one teaches much how to handle us , boz no parents taught them to their children before from generations to generations.
  Coming to point . Handling self means taking care of emotions , not excepting others to work of us. Doing all the possibility by us. Rather than excepting help from others just help urself . It gives peace of mind and independent.

Point to conclude:

The real fact is handling others is not easy and not possible all the times . Simple solution to this accept they way the behave , look and react . Accept and move on . Handling self is easy and responsible and independent and gives real happiness to one who earns for it . To attain this ,self awareness is only key for it . Self awareness gained by meditation and also seeing things as they are .

Thanks for your support

Next blog question is "how to handle mind?"